I strongly believe that a very powerful form of healing happens within and through community: knowing you're not alone, knowing you're not crazy, knowing it’s not ‘just you that does that’, learning from the mistakes, experiences, hope and stories of others, feeling accepted and supported by a community is a gift you don’t receive in 1:1 care. Especially that codependency impacts the ways we relate to others, having a like minded healing community to practice all of your new skills on and trust that everyone there is rooting for your healing, is indescribable! The group chat  ALONE makes this program worthwhile. 

Module one will do a deep dive into what codependency is,  how it shows up for different people and how it shows up for YOU. Overall by the time you’ll be done with  my program I promise you, you’ll *know* your codependency.

If you already know a lot, while you may hear some concepts you already know, I have a deep instinctive understanding of codependency that is uniquely mine, I have personally walked in your shoes, this is an experiential academy even more than it is a learning course, I  will teach you things you don’t yet know and I'll do it with my specific brand. 

So yes, I am confident you will still gain! 

Firstly, as much as I can promise you that I will overdeliver on my end and that I believe unwaveringly in the healing I am bringing into your lives, I also trust you to make your financial decisions.

You know your accounting best.

And.

If you would find this money if it was for someone you loved but are hesitating spending it on yourself...

If you see how much your codependency is costing you in currencies of time, energy, chaos, distorted love, despair, and helplessness and this financial exchange could offer you relief...

If you've already tried the free and low cost recovery options or been in therapy for a while and still feel stuck...

If you feel this three month financial investment could offer you a return of years and years of relief, joy and liberation from codependency...

Then I'd say that YES. This WILL be deeply worth it. 

All of our calls will be recorded and you'll be able to catch the replays!

The replays will be just as potent as the live calls in terms of the wisdom and healing I'll be bringing AND  I strongly recommend that you treat this like they will not be recorded if you can. Truly show up for this, dedicate the time for this, make the calls live, share in the group chat , ask questions live: Play as if your future depends on this ;) 

For a long time after I recovered it didn’t even cross my mind to teach a codependency program because the free CoDA meetings changed my life and I just kept sending clients there.

But over time I started hearing that people weren’t connecting with the meetings, couldn’t find the courage to show up and keeping showing up, were struggling to apply the tools on their own, didn't feel supported enough on a personal level, felt too shy to share and more like these.

That’s when I realized that CoDA was not the miracle tool for everyone just because it was for me. CoDA is self governed and self guided (even with the support of a sponsor which many people struggle to find) and requires a level of social confidence and if you happen to be skilled at those and internally resilient for self-healing you could love it.

But most people need a guide at first, most people learn best by being taught how to personalize content and break things down for them. 

On a deeper level I also saw just how unique it was that I was able to graduate from CoDA after 3.5 years and successfully retain my own recovery; the vastttt majority of fellows I met were 10,14,8,19 years in with no thoughts of graduating; I realized I have wisdom to teach just on that difference alone. 

 My academy offers a type of magic that CoDA doesn’t and serves people who may not resonate with CoDA's magic.

And if CoDA is working for you and you are loving it or you'd like to give it a try first- I so so deeply support that and will always be grateful for my time in the rooms. 

Also, you could always do both; they would blend so beautifully together.

YES! Coaching/learning is different from therapy; this can either supplement your current therapy or it can focus on areas your therapy is not. Or it can offer you both!

I’ve had therapists and psychologists send their clients to join this program.

In terms of replacing therapy, I cannot make that decision for you; you can discuss it with your therapist and consider your capacity. Keep in mind this is just 4 months and you can always pause therapy and then go back after!

(It might even be fun to surprise your therapist with how much you've healed!)

Healing is a journey and anyone who promises you complete healing is lying to you. You will deeply understand your codependency, You will learn tools and healthy behaviors, you will have an understanding of how to put them in practice, you will have spent months practicing in a safe container, you will finally know who you are and what you want.

You WILL feel radically different, deeply empowered, and so very supported. 

And the rest is a matter of time, practice, grace, and commitment. Only by then you'll feel safe and confident trusting each of those things and yourself along the way. 

Yes! We will discuss our anonymity commitments during our kickoff call. This is a small group in order to maintain safety and intimacy. I understand that this can still feel unnerving, but I deeply encourage you to show up fully, lean in to your vulnerabilities and gain the absolute most from this academy. 

And remember, everyone else is on the same journey as you!

Not at all. As you’ll learn in the container codependency is about so so much more than the people we’re in relationships with. This is about you and for you!

There's actually something so so beautiful in doing this recovery work BEFORE entering your next relationship; what a gift and benefit!